Laying
Hold of the Word...Literally...
In
the years I grew up under Grandma's watchful eye, I knew her to be a
godly woman, kind but firm, with a sense of humor, someone not afraid
to speak her mind, but able to do so somewhat gently. She wasn't
perfect, but she was, for the most part, a good, law-abiding person.
In all the years I knew her I only remember one set of actions on her
part that bordered on the criminal.
She
stole missalettes.
After
the Second Vatican Council the Catholic Church changed the language
of its liturgy from Latin to English. In the days of the old Latin
mass, some congregants would buy their own missals, a hardcovered
book with the prayers and readings of the liturgical year written in
both Latin and English. As the mass was said in Latin, they would
follow along with the English translation. After Vatican II, in an
effort to make the English mass more accessible to all, churches
started providing missalettes for those who attended mass. These
were small paperback booklets, usually placed in a rack along the
back of every pew, available to everyone to make the mass a more
participatory experience. In the early days of their existence,
missalettes were published and replaced monthly though now I believe
they are larger and replaced yearly. Despite the fact each booklet
had a vaguely threatening note on it that read “Do not remove from
pew!”, somehow a copy of the current month's missalette found its
way next to the chair in our living room where Grandma would sit down
in the afternoon to have a much needed break from her busy day. We
teased her about the missalettes, asking her why she felt the need to
“steal” from the church. Her justification was that she really
liked to be able to read the epistle and gospel readings for the
week, and the print and language of the missalette was so much bigger
and clearer than the outdated Latin missals we had in the house.
Eventually we bought Grandma a large print Bible, which she liked
even better, and her life of crime came to an end.
One
of the earmarks of the Protestant Reformation was a heavy emphasis on
the Bible and its accessibility to the common man and woman. This
filtered down to the Anabaptists, the Hutterites and continued on in
the Haban. I have three photographs of Grandma's mother, dressed in
traditional Haban garb, and in each one she is holding a small book,
possibly a Bible, possibly a missal. It would appear that she
carried it with her most of the time, showing a desire to never be
far from God's Word. Her daughter appeared to have inherited the
same love of and attachment to scripture. An interesting note: In one
photo, Great Grandma's rosary beads are intertwined in the hands
holding the book, a very visual image of that Haban
Hutterite/Catholic hybrid.
***
Grandpa,
also, had a strong biblical heritage. My mother told me that growing
up, Grandpa would frequently quote “wise sayings” his Haban
mother had taught him. As an adult, Mom realized that the “wise sayings” of Grandpa's mother were, in fact, scripture verses. Grandpa was just quoting his mother quoting scripture. Of course, for Grandpa, sometimes these scriptures were the means for him to get his own way with something. He would quote his mother saying what comes out of the mouth is more important than what goes into the mouth when he wanted to play fast and loose with Lenten or communion fasting rules. His mother's saying was a pretty good distillation of a verse from Matthew 15:
mother had taught him. As an adult, Mom realized that the “wise sayings” of Grandpa's mother were, in fact, scripture verses. Grandpa was just quoting his mother quoting scripture. Of course, for Grandpa, sometimes these scriptures were the means for him to get his own way with something. He would quote his mother saying what comes out of the mouth is more important than what goes into the mouth when he wanted to play fast and loose with Lenten or communion fasting rules. His mother's saying was a pretty good distillation of a verse from Matthew 15:
Do
you not see that whatever goes into the mouth passes into the stomach
and is expelled? But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the
heart, and this defiles a person. (17-19)
And
so Grandpa, believing to be undefiled, would have that late bagel
before church and still expect to receive communion when he got to
mass...
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